THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON . ......Marriage/islam

I spent all day ,before the break of dawn on what was today's blog . A good one I thought . The title of the post was - " Work on it......pray.......and .....allow ". It depicted on the 1st milestone of my career  - the story of my 1st cancer consumer who recovered fully and so on  and so forth . And now the entire right-up has dissappeared with a flick of  a wrong button .Sigh ....
The rain is falling just the way I like it .. Let's smile it away .....my little girl ,seated by my side , comforted me.....'" Mama , there is always a reason......" . Kids are wonderful , they are pure and sometimes they do come up with their fitrah-driven  responses .

Jom blog casually on kawen (Marriage/islam)  ,memandangkan ada quite ramai my kenalan fall into the category of kawen-able age  ,albeit I am way past that phase  ( Alhamdulillah  , I'm blessed with a great one ). This magical merge  is a constitution for relieving our daily stress . Justeru  terdapat many penyakit yang jadi berkurangan or even threated soon after matrimony , one fine example is PMS .. Bukan ke the two genders compliment each other , one is not a whole without the other ,hence the term 'the other half '. People are getting married at a later age than ever before due to a multitude of wordly reasons .This does not match with our needs , causing an imbalance in our inner-self which inadvertantly lead to illnesses both of the physiology amd the mind ,not to mention the soul .
We are too occupied with academia , followed by more academia.....then work ,followed by more work up to the point where there's no room to think about this noble ,beautiful and nourishing practice ,without which a human being is incomplete .The resulting inequilibrium will cause chaos in our body system ,leading to stress and illnesses .( migrain , depression , endometriosis etc ). Marriage is so recommended in Islam .

The  Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi was sallam) said,  ' When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks to marry your daughter ,comply with his request. If you do not do so, there will be corruption and great evil on earth "  (Tirmidhi)

Ironically , it has become a norm in the present era for marriages to be non-lasting ,incurring stress more than relieving . A crying shame , only if we follow and obey all that has been ordained , the damage wouldn't have been so bad .From the very moment a marriage is initiated , so much wrong is committed . Most of us are very much enthralled by the modern version of this sacred practice  , throwing out  whatever sunnah -nabi out the window . How could we expect blessings when we do not obey . Following that extravagance , many do not upkeep their duties  >a wife's 's territory is all that goes on within her house ,whilst a husband's is all without . Isn't that crystally clear . ?  and many other aspects which we violate ........May Allah guide us.



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