The Living Question: Health as a Practice, Not a Performance
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I have a confession to make: I am not a health guru. I do not have a six-pack—unless you count the biscuits lurking in my cupboard. I am not here to sell you a life hack, a miracle tea, or a step-by-step regime that will turn you into the next Ironman. What I am here to do is ask a question that is deceptively simple but profoundly urgent:
Why do we treat health as an afterthought, when it is the foundation of everything we do?
I remember a biology teacher who wore a stethoscope like a poet wears a pen. He never began with dry facts, but with questions: “Why do we eat? Why does your heart race when you are nervous?” He showed us that health was not data or diagnosis, but wonder—the marvel of being alive.
Yet somewhere along the way, that wonder has been replaced. Replaced by step counters, calorie calculators, and endless headlines promising six-pack abs in six minutes or miracle teas that solve every ill. Health has been transformed into performance—a badge in the scrolling feed of our lives.
In this culture of endless performance, it is easy to forget what it means to be well. We are bombarded with images of perfection—chiselled torsos, gleaming plates of kale, flawless morning routines. Yet real health has nothing to do with perfection. It resides in small, everyday moments: the quiet decision to rest, the choice to nourish without shame, the willingness to notice one’s body with kindness.
I recall a friend who spent decades climbing the corporate ladder. He could recite quarterly figures with more passion than poetry. One afternoon, I found him sitting in his garden, staring at a tomato plant. He looked up and said, “Funny, isn’t it? I’ve spent decades chasing numbers, but never stopped to think about the soil.” That is the paradox of our age: we chase what we do not need and neglect what sustains us.
Health, in its truest sense, is practice, not prescription. It is a way of paying attention to the signals of the body and mind, responding with curiosity and care, and acting intentionally every day. The ancient Greeks called this epimeleia—care, not as obligation, but devotion.
Today, health is often treated like a quarterly report. Yet it is not a metric, a number on a scale, or a pill in a bottle. It is the rhythm of our days. The joy of moving our bodies and the grace of resting them. The laughter that softens stress and the quiet meals shared with others. We know this in our bones, yet we forget.
I recently read a study noting that we are more likely to Google “how to lose belly fat” than “how to be kind to ourselves.” We have transformed health into a finish line we cannot cross, instead of a journey we are already undertaking.
Health is communal as much as personal. The air we breathe, the water we drink, the stories we share—these are part of the equation. Community gardening is not just about producing food; it cultivates trust, laughter, and connection. Sharing a meal nourishes the soul as much as the body.
To reimagine health, we might start by treating it like a garden: patiently, lovingly, without panic or punishment, but with curiosity and care. We must learn to tend to life itself, rather than chase unattainable ideals.
It is in these small acts that health manifests: pausing to breathe deeply, walking through a park and observing the light on leaves, offering genuine kindness, or laughing until our ribs ache. These are the gestures of a life attended to—the foundational practices that sustain our nervous system, regulate stress, and reinforce immune resilience.
In the twenty-first century, we have powerful scientific tools to validate what ancient wisdom always knew: practices like mindfulness, ritual, and attentive nutrition reshape neurochemistry. Dopamine, cortisol, serotonin—these molecules respond to intention and attention. Ritualised behaviours, whether making a cup of tea or preparing a meal, synchronise mind and body, turning mundane actions into neurobiological training grounds.
Science now maps what ritual intuition has long practised: the accumulative physics of small acts.
When daily practice is neglected, the body begins a slow, imperceptible
descent into suboptimal function. Metabolic flexibility diminishes,
sleep becomes fragmented, attention dulls, and stress reactivity
escalates. Conversely, deliberate, attentive daily acts scaffold
resilience. A five-minute breathing exercise in the morning may modulate
vagal tone, restore autonomic balance, and improve immune competence.
One mindful meal can recalibrate digestive rhythm and reinforce satiety
signalling. These are not dramatic interventions, but repeated
micro-choices that compound into meaningful health.
Culture plays a powerful role. Societies that honour shared meals, moderate physical labour, and ritualised rest exhibit lower chronic-disease prevalence and higher reported well-being. Contrast this with cultures prioritising performance, productivity, and perpetual optimisation: metabolic syndrome, anxiety, and burnout follow predictably. Environment, culture, and expectation form a triad in which health is practised, experienced, and transmitted.
Moreover, health is a narrative. We are organisms that process meaning as much as matter. Belief, expectation, and perception directly influence physiology. The placebo effect is a testament to this: positive expectation activates opioid pathways, reduces pain, and improves immune parameters. The nocebo is the converse: negative expectation triggers cortisol surges, perceived pain, and inflammatory priming. Our beliefs about health are biologically consequential.
Thus, health is simultaneously individual and relational, molecular and narrative, matter and metaphor. Treating it as a performance isolates it from its context. Treating it as practice situates it in the living, breathing dialogue of life.
Consider small rituals: hydration with intention, a slow walk to notice the sun on the pavement, expressing gratitude aloud, tending to a plant. Each becomes a conversation with the body, training attention, moderating stress, and integrating experience into physiology. Over weeks and months, these practices sculpt resilience and reinforce agency.
Agency is key. Health is not something done to us; it is something we cultivate, moment by moment, choice by choice. To participate fully in health is to recognise the interplay of biology, environment, and belief. Each action becomes a statement: I care. I notice. I act. This is epimeleia embodied.
There is also humility in health as practice. We cannot control every outcome. Illness, accident, and ageing occur despite our best efforts. But practice changes the narrative: it allows us to respond with wisdom, to modulate stress, and to optimise our quality of life. We shape resilience without illusion of omnipotence.
I have met people who embody this principle with astonishing grace: a teacher who walks barefoot each morning to feel the earth, a mother who sings to her children not for discipline but for joy, an elder who tends her daily tea ritual as both medicine and meditation. Each, through ordinary acts, manifests extraordinary health.
Health as practice invites us to notice, to experiment, and to respond. It demands curiosity, patience, and intelligence. It allows joy and pleasure to be integrated into care, rather than subordinated to duty. It is the cultivation of vitality, not the pursuit of perfection.
Ultimately, this is the living question: how do we live so that health is sustained, not just measured? How do we allow our bodies, minds, and communities to flourish without coercion, comparison, or fear? How do we shift from health as performance to health as daily, deliberate practice?
The answer is both simple and profound: attention, action, and alignment. Attend to signals. Act with care. Align expectation with reality. Let ritual, curiosity, and habit reinforce intention. Over time, the aggregate of these micro-choices manifests as enduring health.
We have the tools, the knowledge, and the awareness. We have the capacity to reframe health from performance to practice. All that remains is choice: the choice to tend the garden of our lives, to honour each small signal, to inhabit our bodies fully, and to allow health to emerge as a companion rather than a target.
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